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Much needed help until I receive help.. |
Posted by: iPandalism - 08-18-2018, 08:15 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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My partner and I are struggling massively. We ended up leaving our jobs earlier this year due to me collapsing and ending up in hospital several times, one of which time I was bleeding out and needed urgent care. I got lost through the system for an operation and contacted the local government to help me..which after 5 months in constant agony turns out I have a massive cyst on my ovary and it's caused one of my fallpion tubes to gain twice the size, it kept getting left and left "Apparently goes away by itself" but grew bigger and bigger. And i bled out lots as a result & still do!
Both of us were successful in our careers and now I shall be like this for over a year, I have an operation in 6 weeks and due to the nature of my Illness I am barely able to walk because of the pain & I've gained weight, Ive resorted to going on benefits and my partner is now my carer ..With being on the benefits system I am now awaiting a disability payment (can take up to 12 weeks for any disability top up) This also has caused mental health so my time off work will need lots of support and professional home visits are being arranged..unfortunately we've been left for nearly 9 weeks without the financial support and living off the local food bank, I realise half the planet is hungry but being malnourished from living out of canned food has certainly taken it's toll on my body and really isn't helping my situation, I'm tired & really fed up and suicide has been a thought when I feel like a prisoner of my own home with nothing..
Due to the weight gain (5st in 6 months) I'm also living in the same 3 sets of clothes. We are receiving a limited budget and I have cut my bills and been honest to everybody and pay the minium payments required, unfortunately by the time I pay Electricity, Gas, Water & Our internet (I realise a privlege to have, but it's the cheapest on the market, I don't go out and don't want to be cut off from my family who live abroad) We have nothing!
That's why we visit the food bank. My illness also causes incontinence and so I spend alot of the money buying sanitary products too, although the church who do the food bank have sourced me some, We also spend lots of money on getting around for appointments as I cannot risk public transport in my condition, it's far to painful and risky in case I get knocked into etc, we dont drive so rely on cabs.
We require assistance for helping along the way with normal daily life such as food. I also require new clothes for my operation in hospital as will be there a minium of 2 weeks and do not have that much clothing to last me, currently I live in one pair of pjs that aren't hurtful to my belly etc and fit correctly. I realise begging for money is such an awful thing but I turned to the internet and "you don't ask you don't get"
Its my birthday 1st September and I would love to have a really decent meal at home on that day as a treat. When I'm finally better next year and back to work (finished my degree last year so want my career dream and hungry for it which is why this is so depressing) I hope that I can return the favour as if I had It I would give it too! Thanks for your time. Much love
Paypal.me/iPandalism
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My father has dementia and we need to move |
Posted by: Katem - 08-18-2018, 03:14 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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My father is suffering from dementia and we need to move. My mother and I are his caregivers, and we're unable to sell our home, so we're trying to rent it out. But we have to move ASAP. We're looking at a mobile home in Florida. But I'm short $6.000. The goal is to get a good enough mobile home that it will be the last home of my father, where he can live out his golden years.
My sole job is taking care of my father, and I work as a graphic illustrator on the side, but art doesn't make a living.
If I can get my father to someplace safe where he's not wandering off, driving, or getting on ladders. (Our current house needs a lot of maintaining) He'd be a lot better off, and perhaps I could get a full-time job.
Any help would be amazing. Thank you.
paypal.me/Crecious
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Need Immediate Help |
Posted by: Babykatt77 - 08-18-2018, 02:47 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I don't like asking for help and not really sure what to say but here goes.
My fiance was on his way home from work on August 1st and wrecked his motorcycle. He hit a guard rail. When the bike hit the guard rail, he flipped over it, breaking his right knee and putting a large gash in his left thigh. He is doing better, but still can't walk without using a walker. I am lucky that he survived. The doctor says it may be a few months before he can get back to work. In the mean time, this just put us down to one income, and I can't make all the bills. Between rent, water, electric and phone bill, we pay about $700 a month.. plus we have food and other necessities. If anyone can find it in their hearts to donate a little, even a dollar, it will help. I hate asking for help and just don't know what else to do at this point. Thank you for reading and God Bless.
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Trying my best but running out of time, need help to save our home.. |
Posted by: Mommaneedshelp1208 - 08-18-2018, 01:24 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hi, my name is Michelle and I have two boys ages 8&7. My oldest son has epilepsy and is autistic and along requires a lot of attention. Life has changed for us drastically in the last month and has definitely been more than I can keep up with.o n July 15th their father ended up in jail which not only meant there was one less person to be able to watch our son while I worked but I lost about $800 in income right on the spot. I knew we would struggle some and my children werent taking dad around very well but I had hope that we would over come and Survive. But that also meant I had to go speak to my general manager because my only other person to be able to watch my sons (knowing what to do with the seizures and able to hand the autism),my mother, was leaving state on July 23rd for almost two weeks. This could not be changed And it was something she had to go do. There left me with noone to watch my children so I had no option but to speak with my boss Bout some time off work. She agreed And my last day of work was July 22nd. We talked and also agreed to having me back on the schedule and working Aug. 3rd. Needless to say in a two weeks time life drastically changed again. The morning of Aug. 3rd I called my job as soon as they opened asking about my hours and letting them know that I for sure was able to return back to work. I was told i did not work that day but she things were changing and they would call me that afternoon with my hours. No such call ever came, so I of course called the next day was also told schedules were not completed and I would receive a phone call. It was that day I also realized I was blocked for any outside of work communication that I had with my general manager. Still days later I had no phone call from my employer, but NOW they won't even answer my calls. At this point it starting to become clear that I must no longer have a job but they do not have the guts to call and actually terminate me the correct way. So now here I am trying the newly single parent thing, with two children one with disabilities, and 2/3 of my income gone in two weeks. Now I run into not having enough money to pay current rent along with extra payments that a due, no money for the electric bill, and trying to figure out car insurance so I can get my children where they need to go, look for a job and ultimately be able to get to a job when I do find one. I am still looking for a job as well trying to the the normal route for finding assistance( agencies and local charities) so far no call's have been returned. Yesterday (Aug 16th) when I arrived home there were order of possession papers o. My door from the local magistrate. Which means I have 10 days to come up with $2000 or be removed from my home. I am desperately trying any way possible to come up with this money so that my children do not have to leave their home on top of everything else they have lost or has changed(change for my autistic son is very difficult but all of this change at once would be crippling) So here I am a mother of these two young boys trying her best everyday to do my part in coming up with money to save my home bit ultimately seem to be coming up short, so I am BEGGING if anyone finds it in their heart or is able to help us in anyway please do so it would mean the world to my boys and I. Anything at All is welcomed for that means I am one step closer to my goal that needs met in such a short time. THANK YOU..
PayPal.me/mommaneedshelp
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Please Help. Homeschooling |
Posted by: shonea - 08-16-2018, 11:04 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I am homeschooled, but my family is having a rough time financially. Our internet is being shut off on the 20th and I need help paying it. Please. It's 80 dollars. If you can help, I'd appreciate it so much.
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I'm 18 and homeless! Help! Please! |
Posted by: zohe.eames - 08-16-2018, 05:26 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Please I desperately need money. I have just been kicked out of home by my mum cause I lost my job last week. I'm 18, female and need money to get bond for an apartment. Please... if anyone can spare anything it would help me so so so so much. I need at least $500 to get bond. Please can someone help me.
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Todayformetomorrowforyou |
Posted by: Anqel - 08-15-2018, 09:18 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Please anyone who can donate atleast 5 dollars anything is helpful i am currently unemployed. Have went and put in applications hoping for a call. I have a 5 year old and a 8 month old who is running out of formula . Please anyone who can help ! Thank you and God Bless You All
paypal.me/helpmeGBA
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Todayformetomorrowforyou❤ |
Posted by: Anqel - 08-15-2018, 09:12 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I am in need of a donation anyone who is will to donate just 2 3 or even 5 dollars anything will help. I have a 5 year old and a 8 month year old. Im currently unemployed but have been putting in applications hopeing for a call. My 8 month old is down to his last bottles. He dont have much formula left. Please if anyone can help and thank you ! God bless you all!
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