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I helped someone once, now its my turn in need.. |
Posted by: AndrewWilson - 06-28-2016, 12:14 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Asking for help has never been all that easy for me, but lately I’m just swimming in more debt than I know what to do with. I feel like I’m in my situation because when I was in a good place, I used my money to help someone else in need. Now that I’m in need I’m hoping to count on the kindness of strangers again. Sorry, this is a long story.
I had always been good with my money until a few years back when my “nice guy” mindset got the best of me. I met and got engaged to a mother of one that was fairly poor with her money. She was in so much debt that by the time her paycheck would come, her last week of transactions all had overage charges connected to them. Her monthly interest payments for her over drawn credit cards were getting huge. Even though we were not married yet, or living together or anything like that, I felt like it was a waste for her to be paying so much money every month in these interest and overages charges if I could eliminate them with my savings money that was only making a tiny low percent each month. Over the 2 years we were together I put well over 10k into her debt to help her and her daughter get back on her feet. During this time I got laid off from my current job due to price cut backs. This wouldn’t have been a huge deal had I not just invested my whole savings account into getting her on her feet. So I very quickly got into a large amount of credit card debit trying to keep myself afloat while I found a new job. I regret this now, but I also co signed on a little car for her since hers was on its last leg and she wasn’t able to qualify for one on her own. We were engaged, why wouldn’t I do this?
Well the relationship didn’t work out. Turns out she had been lying for a year or so about being into some heavy drugs and cheating on me during the same time frame. I tried to make it work for a while but she was unwilling to change either of those two actions. We both moved on, but I was the head on her car loan still and had no way of removing it from my name. About a year ago she stopped paying on her car for whatever reason. So I was left either paying for her car each month, or taking a huge hit on my credit for a missed payment. So for a year I ended up paying for my ex fiancés car, which just further added to my credit card debit that I couldn’t seem to make a dent in. Now I’m up to about $13,000 in just credit card debit that I have to pay off that I pretty much just took away from her so she didn’t have to. I’m about to graduate college after 9 years, but that just adds having to start paying 9 years of student loans back. I’ve tried moving my credit card debit around from card to card to take advantage of interest free time periods. But I’ve run out of that and now have to pay 20% interest of 5 figures of credit card debit each month.
I really just need help taking a chunk (or all) of this down so the interest isn’t so crazy high each month. So I can actually make payments on principal each month and make progress towards my future. My degree is in business, I feel like I will be able to make a really nice future for my family and myself one-day. But right now every decision I make is completely directed by that credit card debit. I cant take a job in my field because it doesn’t pay enough right now for me to make any progress on my debit. I can’t move out (I’m back at home for now as a 27 year old), because I can’t justify spending all that money on an apartment when it needs to be going to debit interest payments. I can’t really date to find a wife and start a family because I cant afford it.
If any one is willing, I would really appreciate anything that will help me progress where I am right now. Had this been my own debit that I made poor decisions to get to, I likely wouldn’t be asking for help. I just feel like I’m in this situation because I gave my money to help someone else when I was in a good place, and I’m hoping for someone to do the same now that I’ve hit the bottom. Thank you so much!
paypal.me/AndrewWilson14
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Disabled widowed Mom needs help |
Posted by: ladywolflynn - 06-25-2016, 04:53 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I am a disabled widowed mom...A few years ago my husband passed away from Liver cancer and then I became disabled and unable to walk without assistance. I need a little help with paying some bills such as gas and electric..My gas has already been shut off but now I am getting the calls from the electric company. I need help before they turn that off... I have children and they help as much as they can with part time jobs. I am however unable to work. I believe in paying it forward so please help if you can and when I am able I will help the next person. my electric is 375.00 and the gas is 700.00 every little bit helps. I am barely making it with paying rent and buying food. I thank you for your help.
paypal addy is gavilanes2@yahoo.com
Thank you...Lynn
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Please help funds needed |
Posted by: Craigo0871 - 06-23-2016, 10:24 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hi my name is Craig I am inneed for some cash in the range of £2000 if anyone could help me I have arrears in my rent my council tax I have two kids to feed if anyone could help me my PayPal is craigo0871@gmail.com thank you very much
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Help me keep my apartment |
Posted by: mikaela - 06-21-2016, 06:14 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I'll try to keep this as short as I can. I'm in pain every minute. I can't work full time because of the pain but I can't afford treatment because I'm not making enough money. I can't afford health insurance and I've tried a couple times to get like partial disability but I can't. The pain in my head makes it hard to think but I can't even find a professional to help me look into options such as disability. But right now I'm just worried I'm going to lose my apartment. I need money to keep my home while I try and sort the rest out. Any donation is appreciated more than you know.
paypal.me/mikaelaolivia
As for all the physical pain and options for disability or something, if you have any advice on that I would loove to hear it. I live in Maine. I know different states have different benefits and qualifications. I really don't know much about it at all and any info on how to get started would be amazing.
Thank you so much. Any support means the world to me. Can't find support anywhere else.
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I really need someone to help us. |
Posted by: jfiebiger - 06-21-2016, 12:33 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Although it is kind of a long story, i will kind of sum it up. I recently lost my job (housing was included) so I also lost my housing. We sold our stuff so we could move. I do not drive and we are in the country so finding a job has been hard. We are relying on my husbands social security and the little he gets working part time. My husband is on medicare and is on medication that we have to pay out of pocket. His boss loaned us money for the deposit but had to have it back right away so that has left us short and now we are not going to make rent. I do not have anyone else i can ask for help and my credit is bad so i cannot get a loan. If anyone can help us it will be so gratefully appreciated. Please anyone. Please help.
http://paypal.me/jfiebiger
Thank you for your help.
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I need help |
Posted by: toopiey - 06-20-2016, 06:08 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Am really interest with this page, am here for concert making me in position of a help........to pay all my outstanding bills .......and my levy......tution .......due to poor family backgroung......no family or help to finish my consignment. Please help me out.
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Please help |
Posted by: ChancMarie86 - 06-19-2016, 11:20 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello im in need of help with getting food i have tried to get food stamps but i was denied.. I am type 2 diabetic and i haven't eaten for six days now i feel weak. Im looking for someone who don't mind helping me with getting food by donating.. I really do appreciate it alot trying to get food for today. . Thank you god bless
Here's my paypal link to donate PayPal.Me/ChancieC/5
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