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Dating rules for women after first date
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In this article, I give you fantastic first date tips for women that will ensure that he is so into you, he asks you out for a second (and third) date. Learn how to act, what to wear, and how to let him know that you&#039,re totally into him on that first date. First Date Tips For Women: THIS Will Guarantee a Second Date!

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This article was written by a professional love strategist. If you want to learn the 7 Little Love Steps, click here. One of the things I get asked about the most in my work is for first date tips for women. I’ve met women who are getting back to dating after a divorce, and who are understandably nervous about going on first dates (especially if it’s been decades since they last did). I’ve also met women who date regularly, but who still get nervous on first dates, or who want advice on how to behave so that they get a second date. Either way, no matter what your situation, my advice will be the same. I’ll get into specifics in just a minute, with some valuable first date tips for women like you, but first, let me just say that the best thing you can do on a first date is just to be your absolute best self . It’s that simple. Trying to be someone else will only cause trouble down the road. If he thinks you’re giggly and bubbly (and he’s into that), he’s going to feel tricked when you later reveal that you’re actually super intelligent and not an airhead at all. So yeah, be yourself. Let’s move on to some first date advice that I’ve seen work countless times. First Date Tips for Women #1. Having a Fun, Playful Attitude is Key. One of my first date tips for women is: be playful! I know women who act like drill sergeants on dates: What do you do for a living? Where do you work? Do you have kids? Have you ever been married? These women machine-gun questions at the poor guys until they’re just about dead. This isn’t an interview for a life mate. It’s a first date! Editor’s note: Ready to attract love with a proven strategy? Register for this free training to learn how to find him. It’s important to be playful and just have fun with a date. Sure, ask a few questions, but let him ask them too. You want to aim for a dialogue, not an inquest. So don’t come armed with 20,000 questions. Let the conversation flow as it will. Questions are a good thing on first dates: researchers at Harvard University found, in a study, that women who asked on average 15 questions on a first date were more likely to get a second date. Realize that you don’t have to get all your serious questions answered on the first date to get to know this guy. In fact, you might get to know him better by keeping the conversation light and easy. Rather than only asking questions that help you understand if this guy is long-term material (because trust me: even if he answers the way you want, you can in no way know that you’re compatible like that on a first date), throw in some zany questions to warm him up: What’s your favorite restaurant? Where’s the last place you traveled? Read any good books? What’s the last song you listened to? I understand that you might be nervous on a first date, and so might have trouble loosening up and being yourself. Here’s a tip: when I was single, I used to call an old friend and have a quick chat to get myself into a fun playful state. He’d make jokes about how I’d mess things up on the date and we’d laugh. So then all my worries were dispelled and I was more relaxed heading to the date. Try that. Or something else, like watching a comedy show before you leave. Playing with your dog. Listening to a comedian on the drive over. Just find something that puts you at ease before you meet someone new. It doesn’t have to be too serious and at the end of the day, it’s all about just enjoying yourself. First Date Tips for Women #2. Don’t Worry If It Doesn’t Work Out. Not every first date is meant to work out. It amazes me how some people put so much stock into first dates. They’re already planning the wedding before they’ve met the guy face-to-face! Sorry to say it, but it’s likely that it won’t work out! Most first dates are just that – a first and only date — so don’t freak out if he doesn’t turn out to be the way you thought, or if you don’t have chemistry right off the bat. Here’s one of the first date tips for women I like to dole out: if you shift your thinking to looking at first dates as the opportunity to sharpen your social skills and have fun, you’ll get much more out of them. If you’ve been in a relationship with the same man for 30 years, you probably need some practice flirting and talking to men in general. Even if you don’t feel a spark with a particular date, you can still practice those skills. And in fact, if you’re not sure what you want out of romance right now, recreational dating is a great way to figure it out. Going on a lot of first dates with different types of dudes will quickly help you understand what you’re looking for, and you can get some great experiences and meals out of it! And who knows? You might end up making a really great guy friend. Having a guy friend is great for single ladies because he can help you decipher dudes’ behavior, tell you what they’re really thinking, and warn you away from guys who will break your heart. And if you’re not dating, you’ll always have a +1 to go out with. If you’re in the middle of your date and realize this ain’t happening , have the decency to see the date all the way through (unless he’s being super sleazy, then lay down the law to get him to back off, or feel free to cut the date short. You don’t have to put up with that). If at the end of the date he says, that was fun! Can we do it again? you can say something like, it was fun, but I didn’t feel a romantic connection. Perhaps we can go out as friends? If he leans in to kiss you and you’re not feeling it, divert into a hug. He’ll get the picture. And if you were into him and he didn’t reciprocate your interest, don’t text him after in the hopes that you’ll change his mind. You can send one had a great time text, and if he doesn’t respond, move on. First Date Tips for Women #3. Wear What Makes You Feel Good. Dress in what makes you feel confident. I don’t know a woman in the world who doesn’t want first date tips on what to wear. First and foremost, you should be comfortable. Don’t put on anything that’s too tight, that constricts your breathing, or that your boobs will fall out of. If you’re not sure what the dress code is for the place he’s taking you on the first date, look it up on Yelp and see what type of clothing other women are wearing in the pictures. Most places have a wide range of dress styles, from dressy casual to more formal.













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