10-25-2022, 11:53 AM
Hello, I am actually based in the UK, Darlington, County Durham. I am writing today because I am in urgent need of financial help. I have lived alone for the last 3 years in a town where I don't really have any family or friends. Since my ex partner and I split in 2019 I decided to stay close for the sake of my daughter and just because it's the correct and responsible thing to do. Since that time (which coincided with the pandemic, I have tried to maintain my role of activities coordinator at a local private mental health hospital. Due to suffering depression and anxiety on and off since 2019 I found myself unable to work from April of this year, everything just came to a head.
I kind of had my hand forced by the pressure of mounting debt rising up around me and had to go back to work a month ago but whilst escorting a patient round the local town with a colleague, I found myself unable to cope with the role and my anxiety got the better of me. So I am now back to square one it seems. I have become in debt to the tune of around 6000 uk pounds ($6800). Council tax, rent, water rates and more have got to the stage where I have received letters stating that I have run out of time to pay and the next stage is the bailiffs coming round to extract my belongings.
I have already asked many friends/family members to help but unfortunately nobody i know is in a position to do so.
All I want to do is be here for my daughter, she is my everything. I want to see her grow up and guide her through life. My only option if I don't get out of this financial hell would be to move back to my hometown 100 miles away where I know I will at least be safe. In doing that though I will be rendering myself unable to see my daughter regularly and maintaining the amazing relationship and bond that we have together.
So, If you have taken the time to read this post, please know that I appreciate your time hugely. I have always tried to live my life by being helpful to others and never expect anything from anyone in return. I am now though unfortunately at breaking point, where I feel I could lose everything. It's come to the point where I have to swallow my pride and ask for help from strangers.
I don't expect anyone to help me but would be eternally grateful to any kind person that did.
Kind Regards
Dale
I kind of had my hand forced by the pressure of mounting debt rising up around me and had to go back to work a month ago but whilst escorting a patient round the local town with a colleague, I found myself unable to cope with the role and my anxiety got the better of me. So I am now back to square one it seems. I have become in debt to the tune of around 6000 uk pounds ($6800). Council tax, rent, water rates and more have got to the stage where I have received letters stating that I have run out of time to pay and the next stage is the bailiffs coming round to extract my belongings.
I have already asked many friends/family members to help but unfortunately nobody i know is in a position to do so.
All I want to do is be here for my daughter, she is my everything. I want to see her grow up and guide her through life. My only option if I don't get out of this financial hell would be to move back to my hometown 100 miles away where I know I will at least be safe. In doing that though I will be rendering myself unable to see my daughter regularly and maintaining the amazing relationship and bond that we have together.
So, If you have taken the time to read this post, please know that I appreciate your time hugely. I have always tried to live my life by being helpful to others and never expect anything from anyone in return. I am now though unfortunately at breaking point, where I feel I could lose everything. It's come to the point where I have to swallow my pride and ask for help from strangers.
I don't expect anyone to help me but would be eternally grateful to any kind person that did.
Kind Regards
Dale