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Abusive Household |
Posted by: Gigii - 11-19-2021, 06:49 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello, my name is Gigi and I’m a 17-year-old girl in need of financial assistance. I a currently living in abusive household and am saving up to move out when I turn 18 in a month. I am doing my best to work while also attending school. I just need donations for my first month of rent until I am able to get on my feet an work full time. Thank you and God Bless.
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Trying to save my home and my life |
Posted by: Chellybell - 11-19-2021, 04:57 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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My ex of over 8 yrs became homeless, and came to my home and asked could he stay that night, next day I told him he can't stay here, he asked could he stay another night, well that went on for weeks, he would leave for a month or two and then pop up out the blue at my home needing to stay somewhere..I started getting very aggravated because he started becoming controlling and would not leave my home and became entitled like he owned MY property..it got so bad that he went behind my back and got mail at my adress. I started fearing for my life in my own home when he got physically abusive and when I called the cops NOTHING would get done because he would pull out his mail and make me try to look crazy, and then laugh in my face when the the cops said "since he is a resident here we can't do anything to him" it was a living nightmare, I became a depressed and a stranger or prisoner in my own home. He did so much mental and physical damaged, that even tho I finally got a permanent restraining order against him Aug 2021 I still have a lot to repair, a long with repairing my life...I have been paying for land clearing because he would not put my deck back on my mower he took off without my permission of course, and I could not find anyone to come fix it for me so I could mow my property and it got out of control that it was beyond mowing, it costed $65 a hour to get that done. I have paid 1k to replace my duct work because he would act like he was fixing it and would rig it and tell me he needed large sums of money to repair it so I trusted he was repairing it, he never did he just taped a few holes, my repairman showed me how bad it was from him lying to me and not fixing it ..I have had it replaced, the land clearing and duct work was a lot of money, but I still have a lot more to fix, he took over my bedroom that is an add-on and I was saving money to get AC and heat installed to that room, so I did not sleep in it, because it got too hot or too cold, but I still had my stuff all nice in there and would go in there to get clothes, shoes, etc, well since he was untouchable as he thought, he literally took over my bedroom and destroyed it he literally has bottles and cups of urine all over my room, my wall and window is ruined because he put a window unit in the window that was too small and not made for a window unit. He has destroyed all my doors in my home, some widows, walls, floors, he would just destroy my property and I could do nothing. He would steal my car while I tried to sleep which was very hard to do living with a tyrant, he finally wrecked my lil car that I have to repair, the whole front has been wrecked, which put a hole in the AC condensor and costed me a new AC compressor, I have bought all the parts, but haven't had it fixed yet, I just have to repair my damaged home and car, I'm doing everything I can to fix stuff, but it's costing me more than I have or can save up, my home is not a mansion, but it is mine and I worked hard to keep it in decent shape as well as my car, only to have someone that I didnt even want to help, but since he is the father to all my daughters, I agreed for a couple of days, not over a year to help, and my BIG heart almost costed me EVERYTHING, including my life that he threatened me with all the time until he finally threatened to kill me in front of my oldest, including asking her could he do it..I honestly do not feel safe because I have no security, due to my back door not shutting from being busted open so many times, I would love to get securtiy cameras installed to feel safer. I now had to rescue my oldest and grand daughter from being homeless and I feel like a failing mom, because I can't get my home repaired, and I dont like that they have to be here in this condition, I have more videos of before and afters of some things he has done, if I'm able to post them..I been doing this all alone, but now I don't know what to do any more, one good thing that happened is my ex admitted to damaging a lot of my property under oath, of course lied about the death threat, but the judge seen right through him lying, also I had lots of before and after proof of damages via videos/pics, and he granted me a permanent restraining order at my first hearing, which I am for ever grateful...I am still fixing what I'm able to afford, but the big repairs is unreachable for me. I will benefit greatly to finally having a lil peace of mind and feel safe, funds will be for repairs for my home and vehicle. I really need to start repairs soon as possible due to the conditions of the damages, I will put the love offerings on all the repairs for home and vehicle..I will truly from the bottom of my heart be very grateful and thankful for any support, it would mean so much to me. I have not had to reach out for help in a very long time and this would mean the world to me knowing I am doing the right thing by reaching out instead of putting my life and the life of my daughter and grand daughter in harms way because I was too affraid to admit I need support or too affraid to ask for help...
Sincerely,
https://gofund.me/b3735f78
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NEED ROOF |
Posted by: bassing68 - 11-19-2021, 02:51 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Disabled veteran and we are in need of a new roof that we can't afford. The current roof is about 40 years old and a couple of shingles have fallen off. Not leaking yet but that's just a matter of time. Last estimate about 10 years ago was in the $5,000 range not sure about now. Thank you.
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Asking for help please. |
Posted by: Sizzle931 - 11-18-2021, 09:08 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello, my name is Allen. I am new to this site and how it actually works. Nonetheless I am here for obvious reasons. Over the last few months I have accumulated a decent chunk of debt due to mostly anxiety and depression. I've taken out several loans to try and make ends meet until I can get stable once again but I am beginning to get over my head and I feel I'm going to lose it all. My inability to hold down work due to personal conditions and unfortunately events has put me in what seems to be a never ending pit. I'm in process of getting a new job and trying to become stable but life doesn't wait and I cannot even afford my rent this month. I am trying but I have gotten over my head. Between the 3 loans I have , my car payment that I cannot pay and the rent to live , it seems impossible to get ahead. That's not including trying to feed myself on a daily basis. I want to give up so bad but I figured as a last stitch effort before I end up on the street homeless , I would give anything a try. If I could somehow have things in one payment that was manageable, I feel I could get out of this. I'm just overwhelmed with it all and do not know what else to do. Thank you for reading and thank you if you decide to help. My cashtag is $XTCSIZZLE , I have a paypal too if someone prefers but I'll need to find the link. Thanks again. Bless
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We need help |
Posted by: Jeri80 - 11-16-2021, 03:58 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello, I’m just going to get right to the point. My husband and I have been struggling for years. Once we get a head something always ends up setting us back. Due to my mental Heath I am unable to work and I’m in the lengthy process of trying to get on social security. My husband is already on disability because of his back. We don’t even make it through a month without having to worry about where our next meal is going to come from or how we’re going to money for gas so I can make it to my counseling appointments. We are trying SO hard to get things paid off so we’re no longer in debt. I’m not asking for help with bills, I’m asking for help with food and gas. So anyhow my husband’s doctor pretty much made him leave 13 years of employment because he could no longer do the job nor get another one. So that was a big set back. My husband was getting pain injections into his back which only lasted a few days. The final injection he got caused a rare infection in his spinal cord. He went to the emergency room only to get turned away. They said he was drug seeking. Which was not the case. He went back to the ER and was admitted for “drug seeking” because it was a short time between visits. This time around they did blood tests. They finally figured out he wasn’t drug seeking and told him that if he would’ve waited any longer he would have been septic. Then they rushed him into emergency surgery. They cut his back open from his shoulder blade down to his waist line. He’s 37 years old and can’t walk without a cane. Most days he doesn’t get out of bed because his back is still causing him so much pain that he can’t move. Our bed is the only place he can really be comfortable. Three months after his surgery I had to have surgery on my right wrist due to arthritis (I just turned 41) which is my dominant hand. They removed three bones from wrist and I lost 25% of movement. The surgeon told me that it wouldn’t cause me pain anymore, he was wrong. I can’t write, clean, use a computer, etc etc without my wrist swelling up and causing so much pain. I spend most of the day trying to do what I learned in physical therapy trying to get the swelling down. I can’t borrow anymore money from my family, my husbands family can’t help us. Not to mention that they live 16 hours away and going through their own troubles. So if anyone could help it would be much appreciated. Have a Blessed day.
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Need Help Paying Off Debts |
Posted by: dimples98 - 11-16-2021, 07:30 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I've been managing with paying my credit cards, car, and personal loans for a good while now and I would say I was at a stable spot. However, my student loans are starting back up again, since the covid grace period ends in January. I have close to $45,000 in student loans. I'm looking to raised at least $9,000 to help pay off my personal loans, and pay off or get my balances down on my credit cards bills I currently have. My student loan bills are going to be around $300-$400+ a month. Simply I can't afford another payment with the job I have currently. But by eliminating the current loans I have and including majority of my credit cards, It will help a lot. The rest I can manage on my own. I want to thank to those whoever donated.
Thank You, and God Bless.
paypal.me/cheyy1206
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